Perfect Imperfection

It’s absolutely terrifying

to let someone in,

let them see

the darkest corners of your

Soul…

The reasons why you cry,

and why they make you

so happy.

It’s absolutely terrifying

because

they might run away

with your heart,

and never give it

back.

It’s absolutely terrifying

to know

exactly what you want,

and then feel

like

it’s slipping through your fingers.

You then fall in despair

because

the perfect is not there.

And it’s absolutely terrifying

to know

you are still madly in love

with the IMPERFECT.

 

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Bucharest. Not Budapest this time! Europe. Eastern Europe! – There’s this exotic unconventional vibe you should try!

\There is this very interesting connection between Bucharest and me. In the past 12 years, I have lived in many cities and countries, more glam than Bucharest you would say (Milano, LA…), but somehow I feel a special bond with this city. And no, it is not exactly my home town ( I am born in the north of Romania), but I feel as it is my nurturing nest. There is this energy in it that actually always makes me feel good and alive. I simply reconnect to myself and to the important things in life. I have some friends that simply don’t get it, what could it be that I always return at some point in life in Bucharest and why I find ways to come back, but, believe me, there is a special vibe… that is unique. You should probably ask the expats that do not want to go home anymore. :))) Or maybe it’s time to book a trip and explore this part of Eastern Europe.

Bucharest is by far perfect, but that is the beauty of it. I mean, I like to say it is perfectly imperfect, and such things are the most beautiful in essence!  It is also one of the most vibrant cities I know. There is always something to do, every day of the week: be it an event, an art vernisaje, going out in bars, clubs, cinema, concerts, karaoke, do sports, walk in the park, roller skating and so on, you name it! Practically, you can never get bored and to be honest staying alone is a choice. And it’s safe too compared to many other glamorous European cities. It is very diverse in the people you meet, pretty international, I would say, and you easily make friends. Or at least I do, and no, not only Romanians :))). Most of my friends were international from Italians, Spanish, Americans, Serbians, Greeks, Germans and so on. I guess, this is one thing that I love about this city and keeps me hooked: the people…and the deep friendships that you can built here compared to other chaotic cities in the world.

And getting to the reason of why I am writing this…. every time I come back to Bucharest, I discover a new place that I like. It is almost like I rediscover the city every time. It never ceases to surprise me. I guess Bucharest can never bore me. And then there are those places that bare a special place in my heart… very special.

This post is not intended for those of you that live in Bucharest, as you may all have your preferences, and then we just get into debates:)))), but to those of you that do not live in Bucharest/ Romania, and that are flirting with the idea of visiting the city and would like to know whether its worth it…. and it is worth it! It truly is!

So given the above disclaimer, here are a few spots I would recommend (this season – summer is a different story) to those of you that asked me what to do in Bucharest in autumn/winter:

  1. Fav breakfast: Rue du Pain or Frudisiac – healthy amazing food… and then you just may meet the coolest people in town, chilling, enjoying the morning and some good coffee
  2. Fav Sunday brunch: Fratellini Bistro or Fiori di Latte – the salmon pouched eggs in both places are simply to die for :))) give it a shot! Plus the set-up in both places is very cosy and you may end up hanging around for hours
  3. Fav ice-cream: Cremeria Emilia – this is not even debatable and competes pretty well with the Italian Gelaterias – take it from a gelato freak and guru 🙂
  4. Fav place in the old city: Nomad – cool place, rooftop, cool people and good music – you can listen to my friend DJ-ing Gabriel Radu over there – you might just like it a lot
  5. Fav lunch: Casa di David, Fiori di Latte, Il Locale (these three if you are into great Italian food), Chefs Experience (if you would want to go for a sort of fusion), Adhoc (if you are into Romanian reinterpreted food) or Raionul cu Peste (if you like fish) – actually…this is just a short list…there are too many places I like.
  6. Fav sushi: Kanpai – it is more than sushi…it is a creative sushi place, the combinations just keep on surprising me really. there a sushi burger too 🙂
  7. Fav outdoor bar: Linea-Closer to the Moon – you may just see the best sunsets over here in Bucharest and the restaurant for dinner is pretty cool! Well, if you get to dinner that is, as you may be stolen by the rooftop view and continue with more drinks 🙂
  8. Fav lounge bar: Uanderful – I have a thing for this place. I just had a lot of fun here and they have great cocktails and good finger food… and one of the best lava cakes in town if you are into sweets. E3 by Entourage is another good choice. It gets pretty crowded from Thursday on and besides great drinks, great people, the bar turns into a party place, warming you up before a club night.
  9. Fav burger place: Flying Pigs – I mean you already get it :))); Vivo is another option….but go for Flying Pigs.
  10. Fav dinner place: NOR – this rooftop has amazing views, amazing food, amazing set-up and amazing drinks :))) Therefore, you also have to book before going there as it is so damn good! The Grill is another great place. Go on Thursdays for the themed night or Fridays for the live music.
  11. Fav Romanian restaurant: Caru cu Bere – this one is a must go if you are a tourist. It practically re-creates “the old” Bucharest atmosphere and together with the dancers, it’s simply an artistic show while you eat – all is about the traditional Bucharest high life in the past. You will love it!
  12. Fav social event: The Brunch Affair – party with the coolest people in town. You can follow their page in Facebook and see where and when the next party is as the place changes every time and so does the theme of the party! – this is the beauty of it!
  13. Fav club: Well, it depends what you are looking for – Gaia is the place to go if you want to meet the coolest people in town and great music/ if you are looking for techno/electronic parties – you can choose between Krystal (great sound and the setting is pretty cool too) and Guesthouse (more Berlin looking kind of partying scene). If you are into commercial dance music, there’s Nuba and a lot of beautiful girls.
  14. Fav book store: Carturesti in the old city center – this is just the Disneyland of books, so cosy, so amazing. Even if you are not into reading, it is worth a visit…for a coffee or tea. The café over there is really nice!

Well, I stopped at 14….as with Milano…I could go and on (Lebanese restaurants, meat restaurants, Spanish, Fusion….and so on) … but maybe on a different occasion….spring or summer! So have I convinced you, just a little bit, to put Bucharest on your go-to places for a city break? 🙂

Soul Words

I am that soul who

traces the lines in your hands

Just to feel close to you.

That soul who believes

That the sun and the sparkle of life

are trapped in your eyes.
I am that soul who
Loves every bone in your body

And loves the skin

That you live in.

That soul who

You enchanted with your touch

And is lost and unfixable

without your love.

I am that soul who

needs to be saved with

your pure and endless love.

So tie your soul to mine

And never ever let go.

Make forever yours,

This fragile soul of mine…

Just a Thought…

At the edge of a thought

I manage to find silence.

A soft, comforting silence.

 

For a moment I gaze deeply into your eyes,

Feeling the stillness caught into my lashes.

 

With arms full of warmth, you embraced me with love and hope…

Blessing me right from the start.

 

In a world of unspoken, I lean my head against your chest

And the silence goes straight to my soul.

 

I feel my dreams invading my entire being…

I couldn’t live otherwise now.

 

So I place my hand softly on your cheek,

And you decode my thought right away:

Please never leave!

Just a Snow White thought…

And here I am

At this point

Where I ask myself 

Who am I

And I stare

In the mirror

And though

It’s not broken

Or even shattered, 

There are cracks. 

And amongst the 

Little broken

Pieces of glass

I see

Different parts of

Me

Staring back, 

Sometimes confused, 

Sometimes amazed, 

Mainly bewildered. 

And in the shadows, 

In the very

Corners of the mirror, 

The wooden edges 

Become

A forest

I get lost into 

Twisting

The essence

Of my life,

While half eaten 

Apples

Lay rotting

In possibly

A sort of poison.

And I wonder 

Whether it’s a 

Fairytale

Or a jungle

What I’m living,

And whether

I can hear

Drums beating

Or it’s just 

My heart 

Waiting

To explode. 

Take it from a sweet child of Milan: just when you think going to Milan is a cliché… reconsider!

Yes, I am subjective! Milano is my second home. But in this case, subjective is good if you want to see a place through “almost local” passionate eyes.

Let me give you a bit of a background story: Milano and I share a special connection. I regard this city as a sort of…mentor :). I moved to Milano 12 years ago with a university scholarship and my life took an amazing turn and totally changed from that moment on. I come from this medium size – small town in the north of Romania (a.k.a. Transylvania) called Baia Mare (yes, you may have never heard about it), and before Milan I cannot say I had any clue of real style, fashion, design or anything related to these areas. But I was 19 and open, receptive, so I let Milan shape my education, sense of style, taste (including food) and life perspective. So I am forever grateful… and hooked for that matter! 🙂

I moved out 6 years ago, but somehow, years later, the roads keep on taking me to Milan, more often than not, and honestly, I rediscover it every time: new places, new feelings, new people. So here I am sharing the excitement!

This is meant to be just one article of a few I may write about Milan, pointing out some of my favorite places to go (even if you go there for the first time or you are a regular visitor). Be ready to eat, drink, socialize, walk, shop (of course) and enjoy life – this is in a nutshell what Milano is about. For history lessons, there are a dozen of other cities in Italy, but save this one for living beautifully the Italian way.

I have tried a share of hotels in Milan, but my personal favorite is Principe di Savoia: the service, the breakfast, the people, the building – ahhhhh! I simply feel like a princess every time I step foot in this hotel. Another amazing one is Palazzo Parigi, but more on the pricey side. If you look for a modern stay, close to the city center, Boscolo is also a good option. Fifty House Hotel is a another good option if you are into boutique hotels, close to Piazza Cinque Giornate. But… really try Principe, you will not regret it!

Below there are 10 places I decided to recommend in this blog post (others will come in future ones):

  1. Café Napoli: One of my favorite cafes, on Via Turati 40, at walking distance from the hotel, on your way to the city center, if you want to have your second coffee in the morning (and I am the kind of little monster that needs it ). My boyfriend found it, exploring the area and maybe ways of making me happy – he loves me particularly after I drink coffee, and even more at my second one :)). Café Napoli is a small place, but with exquisite coffee really, and the design of the place takes you directly to Napoli… you should really see it!
  2. Motta Bar –  if you plan to take the city center shopping, and at some point in the hectic shop hopping you need a coffee, Motta Bar at the Vittorio Emmanuelle Galleries is the perfect choice: amazing coffee, great location, yummy snacks and you don’t pay over 5 euros for a coffee as in most of the tourist traps around. Save the rest for gelato or….and this takes me to the next place to MUST-GO….
  3. Luini Panzerotti – this is a must in Milano, it is very close to Duomo and the galleries, and you just cannot go to Milan and not eat a panzerotto. Order the tomato mozzarella one, and yes, the line you see in front of the place is totally worth it! Chill & Wait! Post some instaStories, leave your veganism or raw-veganism at the door in case you practice those and try one! Your body will greatly appreciated it…with a ridiculous smile after!​
  4. Tre Gazzelle – while there are hundreds of gelaterias in Milan, this one is my personal favorite and it is right across of Zara in Corso Vittorio Emmanuelle. Don’t go necessarily for Grom or Ciocolatti Italiani – everyone does that! They became too commercial. Try this place and you will not regret. It’s something really!
  5. Nobu & the black code – while you may think this is such a cliché – it is not. Besides the fact that it is a very nice restaurant, do try the Black code! Nowhere in the world you will eat a better one than in Nobu. Just try it! My boyfriend still thinks he can replicate it. I tell him I believe him. This is love :). Also try the scallops and the spinach salad! Particularly tasty! Try to book a table 2-3 days before going there.
  6. Langosteria – a friend of mine recommended this place and it is one of my favorite restaurants in Milan now. Amazing fish restaurant, romantic atmosphere, high end service, the music is just wow and the best oysters I ate. Take anything on that menu, it’s just amazing.  And of course you need to book in advance!
  7. Terazza Aperol – if you want great cocktails, a wonderful view of the Duomo, you must wait 10-15 min in line to get a spot on this terrace – it is in the Vittorio Emmanuelle Galleries and though it is overly touristic, it is worth it, especially towards the sunset. Go there, fall in love, and of course try the original Aperol Spritz!​
  8. LuBar – this is a cosy breakfast or brunch place. It is perfect for a date with the girls, while its location is really particular and architecturally worth to see.
  9. Straf Bar – if you are around the central area and you want to have a fast drink, Italian way, most locals go to Straf, right next to Rinascente. You avoid touristic traps, you have great cocktails and you get to actually experiment the Italian way of socializing and drinking in the street or on small low stools.
  10. Rinascente – 7th floor: Go til the end of the floor, until you see a terrace and exit. You will have a small “awww” moment, then look for a table and have a coffee or a glass (or bottle) of prosecco and just enjoy life and a wonderful scenery of the Duomo from above. This is one of my favorite places since I was studying in Milan, So trust my subjectivity and drop by! Judge me afterwards!

So… provided that you already think this blog post is really long, I will stop here and use another post somewhere in the future (I will be in Milan end of October again) to recommend you more things to do and try in Milan. I have soooo many more! I could write pages about the city, but I am sure I already over did it :).

 

Original Sin

I don’t know how or why,

But I was tempted

To sip a delicious time

From a glass of sin.

I obeyed.

I tasted in reluctance.

And I was shuddered

As it was bitter sweet.

I did not expect to like it.

But since that day I remained with silent lips…

And I kept silent

As I was wondering:

“What would have happened if during that sip

I would have tasted the flavor of his soul?”